Better Sex Over 40

Is it possible to get better, “betterer” and “betterest” when it comes to sex?

Good, better, best;
Never let it rest
Till your good is better and your better is best

What a way to live your life! It’s not enough to be good. Don’t even think about taking a breather, much less stopping to pat yourself on the shoulder for a job well done. You have to hurry up and be the best!

We are too busy being the best boss, manager, employee, worker, and colleague, etc. Why limit your attitude of excellence to work? At home, it’s about being the ideal son/ daughter; husband/ wife; father/ mother; and brother/ sister. The list of roles we play and the responsibilities we owe goes on. No respite! Inundated with messages of Better, “Betterer” & “Betterest”, that control every facet of our lives, is it any wonder that we have sexual difficulties?

  • We find it difficult to:
  • Talk about sex with our partners;
  •  Discuss sex with our kids;
  • Not think of work during sex;
  • Surrender ourselves to pleasure;
  • Embrace our sexuality;
  • Enjoy sensuality;
  • Let go;
  • Climax;
  • Orgasm;
  • Relax.

In our fixation for better, “betterer” and “betterest”, we might lose the plot altogether. That is: Sex involves the expression of love physical. It is about the joy of life as well as intimacy of connectedness. So quit keeping score in bed. Where’s the fun in that?


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